To pursue social justice, the critical attitude we must cultivate is humility…We must have the humility to realize that, in some cases, we have benefited from the racial status quo.
White people must recognize with humility that, although life can be difficult for anyone, their skin color has not added to their hardships. People of color must recognize that, despite their life experiences, they can sometimes get it wrong when it comes to race.
from How to Fight Racism