Nothing is as important as forgiveness, but sometimes nothing is harder than forgiveness. Contrary to some well-intended advice, we can't simply decide to forgive and move on. It is a process that often takes a long time.
It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going to be silent.
For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last...