You read something that you thought only happened to you, and you discover that it happened 100 years ago to Dostoyevsky. This is a very great liberation for the suffering, struggling person, who always thinks that he is alone. This is why art is important. Art would...
04074 – Understanding a Point of View
You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it. -from To Kill a Mockingbird----------------------------------------------------Gender-inclusive version: You never really...
04008 – Not Good Enough
The ultimate logic of racism is genocide, and if one says that one is not good enough to have a job that is a solid quality job, if one is not good enough to have access to public accommodations, if one is not good enough to have the right to vote, if one is not good...
03907 – Dealing with Dysfunctional Bullies
Almost every struggling church I know has at least one dysfunctional bully who goes out of his or her way to be a big fish in a small pond... The sad thing is that most of the leaders know this person or group is a stumbling block to the church's future and they will...
03879 – Emotion is the Key
Emotion is what turns an object into a memento, an event into a happening, and a person into the love of your life.
03803 – Mirroring and Magnifying Each Other’s Light
The longer I live, the more deeply I learn that love--whether we call it friendship or family or romance--is the work of mirroring and magnifying each other's light. Gentle work. Steadfast work. Lifesaving work in those moments when life and shame and sorrow occlude...
03795 – Creating or Destroying Community?
The person who's in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go.
03792 – My Responsibility
If a person is of infinite worth in the sight of God, whether they are saint or sinner, whether they are a good person or a bad person, evil or not, if that is true, then I am never relieved of my responsibility for trying to make contact with this worthy thing in...
03595 – Embracing Grief & Mourning
We don't need to be joined at the head with a person experiencing grief; we need to be joined at the heart. The transformation of our culture into one that embraces grief and mourning as natural and necessary parts of human life is my vision. from Companioning the...
01772 – You are Important!
If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.